How do I help my husband understand that I don't like if he's been drinking?

Alcohol has always been a sore spot in our marriage, but I'm NOT using as a bargaining chip. I don't mind if he has a couple of drinks a night, but it IS a problem because he drinks 1/2 a bottle of vodka or moonshine (yes, moonshine) in a night. He slurs his words, is a lot more rude than he is when he's sober and really clingy among other really annoying things, like grabbing my or trying to "get me in the mood". He also totally reeks of whatever he was drinking that night. I feel really bad because I love having with him, and when he's not drunk I LOVE it, but having him wasted during makes me feel - well, awful. When I refuse him because of it, I feel bad too. He gets frustrated and a little upset when I refuse. I've tried gently letting him know that seeing him drunk turns me off, but he just rolls his eyes. He knows I don't find it y at all, but he still does it. I'm tired of it. I want , but not floppy drunk man sex. How can I finally get it through his head??