Older couples..ual compatibility...if you got this email from someone you are in a relationship with...?

Great letter. This is your letter to your lover, right? (It's remarkable to read something this long and not be absolutely certain whether it's from a man's or a woman's perspective!) I hope he has some answers for you. (Should I ume it's a him?) If not, you and I should get together. I have been saying this kind of thing to my wife for the longest time. (I'm a him.) And she always listens to me politely and says she'll try harder to understand my need for in the future. And then it's as if we never had the conversation.